Today’s post involves a problem that I am very fortunate to have. I am lucky that I have the opportunities to travel. But the reality is that sometimes, traveling and weight-loss management are two diabolically opposed forces. For me, the basics are as follows:
- I lost about 70 pounds twelve years ago and then another 25-30 four years ago. I maintained this (?too low) weight for about a year and then gained about 5-10 back and have maintained this for a few years . For the mathematically challenged, that’s about 90 pounds of weight lost.
- I love to travel and visit new places in the world.
- I have terrible anxiety about gaining 90 pounds. Or even 10. Or 5.
...nor the driving in torrential rain on the gravel road that went on for about 70 km...
(I credit my driving skills to years of car-racing video games)
I come from a long line of people who love to eat, drink and be merry. It’s part of my genetic makeup. Wanderlust also permeates my DNA and I married someone who eats, lives and breathes travel. Our mutual love of travel is one of the reasons we got together, and one of our favorite things to do as a couple. Yes, I'm a grown woman and still carry a huge backpack when we travel.
When I travel, I try to follow some basic guidelines just to keep things in check AND to be able to enjoy all of the culinary pleasures that our destinations have to offer us. Whether it’s a local specialty dish or the country’s revered carb, I want to partake in it. In fact, one of our favorite past-times when visiting foreign lands is slowly perusing the supermarket aisles. And don’t get me started on the chocolate or the ice cream.
Soft serve. It doesn't get much better.
Here are the tricks that I have used in order to keep things in check while on vacation:- Pack healthy & filling meals and snacks for the plane because you have no idea what will be served, if anything at all. These days airlines are charging for everything. You’ll be lucky if they toss you some peanuts with your free bevvie. Beyond that, it’s all you, baby. Sometimes, they have healthy options that you can buy. Sometimes they run out of those healthy options. Just before they get to your row. I usually clean the perishables out the fridge and bring most of them with me. This has saved me on more occasions than I can recall.
- Exercise most days, as my energy will allow: If I can find a gym, this is often the best option. If not, I will create a plyometric/sprinting/circuit routine on a country road, city park or hiking trail. I bring resistance bands and my mini ipod shuffle. If I’m really short on time but want to stand in a puddle of my own sweat and be unable to sit down for a few days, I do my Hotel Room Lunge and Squat Workout. Exercise allows me to start the day off right. Plus I love a good dose of endorphins, don’t you?
Sumo Squats- perfect timing- a tour bus passed by at that moment.
P.S. Thank goodness for stretchy jeans.
Leg Lifts, or just goofing off?- If possible, eat only one meal per day in a restaurant. The other two meals could be simple picnics or self-catered, often with food bought at a supermarket. The ‘meal out’ sometimes includes alcohol, and almost always involves a dessert or two. And bread. And the local specialty of the house or region. I try to eat things that I can’t readily find at home.
More salmon. On top of amazing things, with amazing sauces. Sorry, I'm a bit rusty on my food blogging skills..
Check the klassy decor at this road-side cafe: Ice cream cones holding fake flowers, stuffed into coffee pots 'vases'...ironically, this cafe had the best lamb soup we found in 9 days in Iceland.
- If possible, bring my mini-blender to allow me to make my shakes for breakfast. (THIS WAS NOT POSSIBLE IN ICELAND). For those die-hard readers who have been on this journey with me for a while (THANK YOU!), you will be correct in noticing that I recently did a 180 on the blender issue…Back in October I was very proud of myself for leaving my blender behind. After much deliberation, I decided to ‘cry uncle’ and let the blender back in the suitcase. The reason? The ONLY breakfast ‘food’ that fills me up and keeps my hunger in check throughout the day is a big fluffy smoothie. It even seems to carry my satiety after lunch. I can’t explain it. It’s just a fact with my crazy body.
- Pack several pounds of healthy snacks of which I usually consume about half. I pack energy bars, nut butter envelopes, single serving packs of nuts, oats, beef jerky, Primal Strips Seitan Jerky (Thai Peanut!) and 100-calories packages of candies that I love... just in case of a chocolate craving. I also found some single serving tetrapacks of hummus at JFK that I will need to hunt down for my next trip. (These are genius single servings that are SHELF STABLE!) Once at my destination I hit the grocery store and buy fruit and veggies, as well as yogurt if a fridge or cooler is available. Icelandic Skyrr was good, but in my opinion, Greek Yogurt is King.
Single-serving shelf-stable hummus!(poor quality photo due to turbulence at 30,000 feet and an iphone camera)
So despite these safeguards, I still suffer diet-anxiety on trips. While I’m adoring the dark rye seedy bread that was baked in the steam of the local hot spring or the amazing lamb soup, I am also beating myself up for knowingly and willingly “going over” my calorie limit for the day.
My question to myself is this: why oh why can't I do what “normal” people do? Normal people go on vacation. They eat and drink more than usual, know that they will gain some weight and shrug their shoulders saying “oh well, I’ll just take the weight off when I get home.” I believe that it is my fear is that one day, I won’t be able to take off the weight that I inevitably gain on vacation, and it will be the beginning of the end. What if? What if?
Invariably, we have a marvelous time and I DO gain a few pounds. The last time I had a big trip, I did not get right back on track as I mentioned in this post. And frankly, it did mess me up for months.
After we left Iceland, we met my brother and SIL in London. I also got the rare treat to meet up with this fabulous blogger from Salad And Sequins! She did a great recap of our visit here.
Thoughtful smoothie-friendly care-package from Tam.Then Derek, my brother, Steven, SIL Arizbe & I boarded a cruise that was such a caloric disaster that it made any concerns I had in Iceland look utterly laughable. As I don't like to whine on my blog (that's what Derek's ears are for), I will spare you the gory details. Perhaps I'll do a photo recap at some point, as we had an absolute blast, and paid much homage to my Dad, who was very much with us in spirit.
Last week when I returned home, I was actually thrilled to get right back into the food-in-moderation camp and so far, I do feel 100% better for it.
I also did go to Ross and stocked up on new, cute sun-dresses and mu’u mu’us (aka Maxi-dresses) so that until I’m back to feeling really comfortable in my own skin, at least I can feel comfortable in my own clothes.
**Special Note to Bloggers using Windows Live Writer...SOS! Help a girl out! I can no longer load my newest photos from Picasa to Windows Live Writer, but I'd love to do a Wordless Wednesday Post on Iceland. Frankly I don't think I have enough time or energy to attempt it in Blogger. Sigh. Thoughts?**
Q: Do you have any tips for traveling? Do you experience travel angst? How to you deal with the ever-present conflict of wanting to enjoy your vacay and not-gaining-weight? Will anyone else cry big wet tears with me when Maxi-Dresses go out of style? Do you have trouble with WLW and Picasa photos?





29 comments:
Traveling used to be a very stressful thing for me. Now I look at it is as a chance for me to shake things up a bit. I try new workouts, new foods, and try to be as active as possible by exploring my new surroundings. I never have any problems gaining weight on vacations now because of that new attitude. And if I do happen to put on a few pounds, it's most likely water weight and comes off within a week or 2.
Thank you so much for this post! It's not just when I am traveling, but I constantly fear gaining weight back by simply indulging once. I am very lucky to have a loving, reassuring husband and, on my last trip, actually managed to lose a few pounds. I chalk it up to allowing my body a much-needed break from my daily workouts.
I still struggle with the fear, but I know that my body needs to rest and so does yours :) On a side note, you have a mini blender? I need details!
I am SOOOO HUNGRY right now! All of your food looks so yummy. And I am so glad that you let yourself eat and enjoy it. Suffice it to say that you are NOT the only girl with the traveling-food neurosis. I so understand your thoughts. But it sounds like reason (and Derek) ruled the day and your vacay looks like it was a blast!
Great photos! Looks and sounds like a wonderful trip!
And, yes, traveling can be stressful when it comes to eating and living healthy (despite traveling being wonderful otherwise). We went on a few mini vacations this year, and even though I planned ahead and brought a lot of healthy food, I still felt a bit out of balance...
BTW, I'm not sure I know any "normal" people who "go on vacation, eat and drink more than usual, know that they will gain some weight and shrug their shoulders saying “oh well, I’ll just take the weight off when I get home.”" Maybe normal is far less common than we all think... :)
I definitely get the angst just like this friday I go away for 6 weeks so I will be away from my usual routine scary! But I will be able to control it fingers crossed, I just need to not eat out EVER! x x
I'm incredibly jealous. I would love to go to Iceland. I'm a huge traveler too (or at least I was until my knee injuries) and I see it this way: I get in a lot more activity while traveling than at home so it's worth it to indulge a bit. That's especially true in big cities where you're walking everywhere or climbing towers or whatnot. Besides, I think the saddest thing is visiting another country and eating your own health food packed from home. What's the point of travel if not immersion? :)
Deb - Your photos are AMAZING!!!
I understand that feeling that you could wake up one day with all your hard work undone, but I have all the faith in the world that you wouldn't let that happen.
My approach is to reign it in on trips, when I can, so that I don't have as much guilt while on the trip and can recover faster when I get back. (Disney, good example. MOC's, bad example.) Otherwise, I've missed out on enjoying the trip AND started a downward spiral that I will have a hard time stopping once home. Being prepared is always key, and you do such a great job of that!
MOC won't even GO on a cruise for fear of weight gain. Oy! Think of all she's missing!
Can't wait to see more pics!
PS. Those are the craziest table decorations I've ever seen in my life!
I loved this post, Debs! Brent and I adore traveling too and I only wish I was able into that "dilemma" more often. No only do we see "workouts" wherever we got I also get a huge kick out of local grocery stores when we are traveling. I wander up and down the aisles looking at all the different things. My favorite grocery was one in a "small town" of 3 million people in China. I like foreign groceries so much that I even seek them out locally. In the last few months I have been to a Asian and Indian markets in my town and a huge Chinese supermarket in AZ. Half of the time I don't even by anything I just wander around.
Okay enough about my weird fondness for supermarkets.
I really like the idea of self-catering and eating out only 1 meal a day. Not only does it save calories but also $$.
I don't get too stressed out over traveling and eating probably b/c I don't travel enough. When we visit my grandparents in Scottsdale I stress a bit b/c they take us out for almost every meal. I start to feel super bloated from all the salt. On our last big overseas adventure I don't remember stressing at all except when we visiting an extremely poor family and they wanted to give us watermelon. They lived in a teeny eeny little dingy apartment with one cutting surface and one knife. We had just walked up streets filled with trash and saw meat hanging from windows. Yeah, I was worried. Sanitation is the luxury of the rich. Thankfully I didn't get sick.
I'm glad you had a such a wonderful trip. My eyes hurt from jealousy looking at those pictures. I like gratuitous animal shots.
So how is this long comment for your long post! :-D
woohoo, first blog post i've read since getting back from my honeymoon.. and it did not disappoint. loved all the photos, looks like you guys had such a grand ol' time!!!! and for the record, i haven't broken a sweat from working out in over 3 weeks. now, that's not saying i haven't broken a sweat from other activities. wink, wink, nudge, nudge. anyway, you do a great job of balancing things while you travel, deb. derek is right, he is a smart guy. you always bounce back and plus.. you eat/exercise better/more than the average joe day-in-day-out WHILE you are on vacation. so no worries there.
again, i really enjoyed the photos!
love you!
Emily- sounds like you have a great balance! A week or two to get back on track for me often feels like it's in Dog-years, but in reality, it's a short amount of time to get back to normal.
Fightingwithfood- I'm so glad to know that I'm not alone with the angst. We are lucky to have understanding hubbies. Great that you lost a few pounds on your last trip! The mini blender is a Back to Basics Blender Express:
http://www.amazon.com/Back-Basics-BPE3BRAUS-Blender-11-Piece/dp/B000GA71PG
It's not "mini" but it's about the size of a magic bullet- and it is great.
Charlotte- Oh goodie= another soul sister :-)
Andrea- what? You don't know any normal people?!! haha. What about your husband? They are usually pretty normal! ;-)
Tam- you will be going somewhere for 6 whole weeks which I believe will mean that you will settle into a whole new routine- I think that will be easier than a 2 or 3 week stint where everything is topsy turvy- can't wait to hear how it goes!
Tracy- yes yes yes, you are so right on the immersion. And I totally agree that it is sad to be in another fabulous culture and pull out a Kashi bar. Having said that, I usually use those 'safe' foods for 911 moments, like 11pm, the stomach growls, and no great local food- break out the kashi! ;-)
Carbzilla- thank you for the confidence. Re MOC, that is really sad. I heart your mom, but I never want to avoid doing something fabulous because of my diet woes- that would really be sad.
Jenn, I too, LOVE foreign supermarkets in my own town too. Mexican, Chinese, Japanese, Persian- I'm all over it- and like you sometimes I just ogle and buy only one or two precious items :-)
You are a big world traveler- neat story about the watermelon- it was probably 3 months wages for them :-/
Mrs Janetha GGGGGG! How honored I am to be the first post you read after your honeymoon. According to the Daily Plate, "Sex (vigorous)" burns about 104 cals per hour, so you must have been a busy girl ;=) Welcome back- you'll need a vacay now to rest up!
PS. These were the ugliest photos from our trip. If I can figure out my problem with Windows Live Writer, I'll do another post with the pretty photos.
DEB!!! You're back!!! I loved all the guest posts, but I missed yooouuu!!!
I got a kick out of your comment on my blog today. I have not in fact stayed lean eating those foods - I did a fitness assessment last week, and I've gained 6 lbs in the last 3 months!!
Okay, more like 5 lbs. As I'm pretty sure one of those pounds was straight up bacon poutine that went away after a day of digesting.
While being a little down on this chubbier version of myself, I've learned something important through this experience. I ate and drank merrily for three months straight and ONLY gained 5 lbs. I used to think it would happen during a week-long vacation, but that's silly. It takes a long time to put weight back on. Now I have my eye on the prize and my goal is to get it back off ;) I don't regret a morsel of food I ingested over my travels, and every pound is a pound worth gained in my opinion :)
So you use Blogger in Draft?? I find it so much easier than the original layout!
Anywho - great recap. I'm so jealous of all your traveling. I'll be living though you for the time being...
Nutella and salmon? Uhh...? (I'd probably try it though.)
That first word should be "Do" not "So"...
Susan- honestly and truly YOU have one of the absolute healthiest approaches to life of anyone I know. You have the perfect balance of healthy and indulgent and you have no regrets...love it.
You ARE lucky that you only gained 5 pounds in 3 months of indulging. Unfortunately for moi, I DO gain weight very very quickly when I overindulge- even my hubby (the normal one) recognizes it to be a fact for me. So for me it's almost always a matter of trying not to do toooooo much damage while away, so it's faster to take off when home. I exercise so much at home that it's nearly impossible (nor desirable) to ramp it up on vacay, so if my food intake increases substantially, it's all on my booty. Thank you for your comment- love all of your sanity! :-)
Deb, I do get anxious about food when I travel, but I've gotten a lot better about it on shorter trips, and a lot better about it in general. Like you, I try and only eat out once per day, and then go to a local grocery store in search of my typical eats. However, I still always eat more while traveling than I normally would at home, but as soon as I get back, it's things as usual. So, I just try and roll with it and enjoy myself. Besides, I usually stay pretty active on trips with walking, etc. It all balances out in the end...I hope. :)
Your trip looked wonderful as did all the food - Nutella and salmon? I would totally try that, and you know I'd be joining you for some soft serve cones. Love that photo of you and Derek - the one where you're resting your head on his chest. So sweet, and your ass is looking mighty fine in the squat picture!
Love you.
-Heabie :)
Deb, I think Derek has a supermodel filter on his camera - you look amazing and glowing, even more so than usual!
Yes, I too occasionally suffer from severe TFA (travel food anxiety), but I just read an article yesterday in Shape (heaven help me that I actually get that mag - it was free) that was from a REAL woman, not "10 tricks to blast your butt while in Rome" nonsense. Very refreshing.
After weeks (er, months) off the wagon, I feel re-energized to tackle the food conundrum with delight and enthusiasm again. Many of us seem to operate from fear mode - fear of being fat again - rather than joy of living and eating and moving. *Sigh*
Iceland looks amazing too. It must be the supermodel filter.
what a great trip you 2 look like you're having fun!
i needed to tell you that tjs has peanut flour now!! i JUST bought today and thought of you haha i know careeeepy!
have you ever made pancakes with it? or do you just use it in smoothies? i haven't tried it yet but i'm peerrrty excited! any tips??
Jessie/Graze: I will try Blogger in Draft- thank you.
Heather- actually, it just dawned on me that my 'rule' of trying to eat out just once again applies to home too :-) Really helps.
Allie- the supermodel filter had nothing to do with Iceland's beauty. Never in my many years have I been to such a varied and stunning place- never, ever. Would love to see that Shape article. Yes, once I got home I was delighted to get back to healthy balance again. I welcomed it.
Julie- welcome! Oh halleluja- really TJs has peanut flour?! I hope it's not PB2 as it's just not as flavorful as the stuff that Allie (above sent me). Not yet used in pancakes but bet it would be amazing. I use it in smoothies, protein Ice cream, to make a paste and 'pretend' it's real PB (sigh), among other things. You can use it for anything you want to taste more peanut buttery! Thanks for the comment.
Jessie- I think i'm in love with you. Thank you for Blogger in Draft. I have sent Windows Live Writer a Dear John letter. uh, Buh-Bye WLW.
Wait a minute. Are you serious about that Nutella dish?! OMG!
Deb, I love your crazy workouts while traveling ;) They totally inspire me to get off my booty and make it happen. You have such tremendous discipline!
Annnnnd I have also learned from your tip to eat locally when traveling. I've tried a lot of new things that way since we first met in the UK :)
I'm glad you are back, you were missed!
Love All the pix of Iceland! I've always wanted to go. I'm organizing a blogger brunch at 11am this sat the 7th in w Hollywood. Let me know if you can come!!! Actorsdiet(at) gmail.com
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